Author Archives: Rabbi Thiede

Feel Free to Do Like the Angels

As we enter the Day of At-One-Ment, feel free to…

  • wear white during Yom Kippur. We dress in the clarity white brings to our spirits as we do the good work of clearing away the dross our souls have collected this past year.
  • bring and wear your tallitot.  Though prayer shawls are mandated for morning services only, Kol Nidre is a single exception to that rule.  We wear our prayer shawls for this service to emphasize Yom Kippur’s special holiness.

I look forward to a deeply meaningful Day of Awe with you all.

Rabbi Barbara

Shabbat-O-Gram

This summer has been filled with scenes of horror and terror.  As we enter Shabbat, I thought it worthwhile to send you all a vision of innocence.

Life is miraculous and holy.  If only we could make that consciousness worldwide…

Aleynu — it’s upon us to try.

I hope to see you tonight at services.

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Barbara

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h48Nf8_y_Nw

Temple Or Olam is EVERYWHERE!

Great news!

Marty Minchin, a wonderful free-lance journalist, wrote about our Temple’s move to Piedmont Unitarian Universalist Church.  Her article (with picture!) was published in The Charlotte Observer’s South Charlotte News, Steel Creek and York News, Lake Norman News, and even the City News (that’s the section distributed in NoDa, East Charlotte, Plaza Midwood, Uptown, and West Charlotte).

There’s more.  Marty’s feature was also published in Cabarrus News and University News alongside my column, On Common Ground, which also featured our move.  In some of these publications as many as three pictures accompanied the stories.

http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2014/07/12/5033349/temple-finds-central-home-in-university.html#.U8KHJ_ZOVZQ

http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2014/07/11/5032790/our-heart-history-remain-in-cabarrus.html#.U8KPb_ZOVZQ

Please consider writing and thanking Marty for her wonderful work at:

martyminchin@gmail.com

And please, help us spread the word about our move.  Our congregants are our best way to let people know who we are and what we do!

Shavua tov,

Rabbi Barbara

Rabbi Zalman Schachter-Shalomi – May his Memory be for a Blessing

Dear all,

At 8:40 Mountain Time, Rabbi Zalman Schachter-Shalomi took his last breaths.

Reb Zalman, often described as the founder of Jewish Renewal, whose friends included Ram Das, the Dalai Lama, and countless other religious leaders.  He combined, in his practice and teaching, a deep ecumenism.

Reb Zalman opened Judaism up to a generation of disaffected Jews; his work led to the creation of ALEPH: The Alliance for Jewish Renewal.  The ALEPH seminary has ordained over 80 religious leaders.

I first met Reb Zalman in 2005 at an ALEPH Kallah.  I teach his work.  I hope to pass on his most gorgeous teachings.  For me, these include his injunction to his student to make our texts speak, to tap into the deep storytelling and wisdom of Chassidic traditions, to help transmit what it is to be Jewish with feeling.

For those who knew him, this is an inestimable loss.

Zichrono l’vracha, may his memory be for a blessing.

With sadness,

Rabbi Barbara

Seven Times Seven: Counting the Omer (and Our Blessings)

Tonight, many Jews begin counting the Omer, the 49 days between Pesach and Shavuot.  Once upon a time, the counting had everything to do with harvesting.  Counting the Omer has come to be a spiritual practice, one that helps us be mindful not only of the transitions of spring to summer, of slavery and bondage in Egypt to revelation at Sinai, but from personal spaces of constriction to places of renewal and peace.

Nowadays, you can find sites that will send you reminders, reflections  and meditations of all kinds for each day (some are listed below).

But here’s a thought:  Remember how we began the year?  With an exploration of the sevens of vows, of abundance, of commitments.  Counting the Omer asks us to count seven times seven…!

Consider taking time each night – alone or with company – and count what you can count on.  A smile from a spouse or family member each day?  The knowledge that you yourself hold something or someone precious?  Maybe you can name a blessing you have received (or one you have given) that day.

Consider counting your seven times seven this year

If you want to learn about counting the Omer, check these handy sites out:

http://www.myjewishlearning.com/holidays/Jewish_Holidays/Passover/In_the_Community/The_Omer/Meaning.shtml

http://www.jewfaq.org/holidayb.htm

There are plenty of sties that will gladly send you email reminders.  One such site can be found here:

http://www.meaningfullife.com/torah/holidays/8b/Your_Guide_to_Personal_Freedom_-_Week_1.php

Feel free to explore on the Internet for others!

 

Food for Thought (for Passover….)

Miriam DancingThe most important part of Passover is something you can do alone or together as a family.  It will not require physical work but spiritual work.  Just take some time to think through some of the implications of the story we tell on Passover.

For example: Consider the four promises of redemption we associate with the four cups of wine at our seder:

  1. I will bring you out; you shall escape the suffering of narrow places.
  2. I will save you from enslavement.
  3. I will deliver you.
  4. I will take you to me; you will be mine.

Then, consider yourself as the agent:

  1. What does it mean to suffer the narrow spaces?  When do we feel constricted?  Is the narrow space within us? When are we sensitive and aware of others’ suffering?  What do we need to be made aware?
  2. Are their limits to saving another?  Are we aware of our own dependencies? If so, why?
  3. What is “deliverance”?   What kind of deliverance could each of us offer?
  4. Can we really take the Other to be ours, or ourselves?

Some food for thought for Passover. Chag sameach!

Four Mitzvot of Purim – Help Feed the Hungry

If you are coming to our Purim Party tomorrow, please remember to bring some canned goods we can donate to the hungry; this has been an Or Olam tradition for many years.  And just as a reminder, here are the four mitzvot of Purim!

  • Megillah Reading – Book of Esther – Traditionally he Megillah is read twice on Purim, once at night and once during the day.
  • Matanot La’evyonim – Gifts to the Poor – Giving to the poor is a mitzvahd at any time, of course. However, the mitzvah to do so on Purim is in addition to the general mitzvah of tzedakah (charity).
  • Mishloach Manot/Shalach Manos – Sending Edible Gifts – (No, Hanukkah isn’t the traditional gift-giving season; Purim is! Send or deliver at least one Mishloach Manot gift containing at least two different types of ready-to-eat food items.
  • Mishteh – Feast – Eat!  The bare minimum requires that washing (netillat yadayim), eating some bread and reciting the Birkat Hamazon , the Grace after Meals.

May happiness and joy increase!!

Or Olam in the Loop: Our Weekly Bulletin on Everything TOO

LoopUpcoming: An Weekend of Wonder at TOO

We have an amazing weekend planned for early November.  We’ll kick off the weekend with a Kabbalat Shabbat service led by our Religious School children together with Rabbi Barbara. Weekend events will also include programs offered for Temple Or Olam’s adult crowd, teachers, and students from our Institute for Southern Jewish Life (ISJL) intern, Elaine Barenblat.  Look for an evite soon for Saturday night dinner and Havdalah.

Here’s a brief overview of our schedule:
Friday night, 11/8, 7:00 – Kabbalat Shabbat with Rabbi Barbara and the Religious School students
Saturday, 11/9
2-4 pm – Religious school teacher training with Elaine, at McGill.
4-6 pm – Movie for kids with Keri; adult discussion with Elaine.
6-8 pm – Potluck supper and Havdalah
Sunday, 11/10
Elaine teaches our young’uns about tzedakah and Jewish heroes and heroines

Victory Lane for John Jensen

John Jensen’s bar mitzvah will be held Saturday, 11/30, 10:00 am, NASCAR Hall of Fame in Charlotte.  Yup, you read that right.  SAVE THE DATE!

Feeding the Hungry: Our Next Gleaning Opportunity

We have the opportunity to glean apples on Saturday, October 26th near Hendersonville, NC.  The orchard is approximately 2 hours from central Charlotte.  If you’re looking for a crisp fall activity that will help feed a LOT of folks, contact Arlene Filkoff at afilkoff@gmail.com

Upcoming Meetings at TOO

Fundraising committee meeting, Sat., 10/26, 1:00 pm, Filkoff’s
TOO Board meeting, Sunday, 10/27, 7:00, conference call

Or Olam in the Loop: Our Weekly Bulletin on Everything TOO

LoopBar Mitzvah This Shabbat

Help us support our youngsters at this special time by making every effort to attend.  Please reply to your evite that came on October 4 if you have not already done so.

Saturday, 10/19, 10:00 am
Radbourne Clubhouse, 3325 Radbourne Blvd,Charlotte NC 28269
Bagel brunch following

Last Call for Beginning Hebrew Classes

This will be the first and last time Rabbi Barbara teaches Hebrew for at least the next three years.  Course components: learning the Aleph Bet, how to read Hebrew, acquiring some basic vocabulary, and understanding the general content of basic Shabbat prayers.  The course meets by conference call on Thursday evenings at 7 p.m.  Please write to Rabbi Barbara at Rabbi.Thiede@or-olam.org by this Sunday, October 20 if you want more details about the class.

All the Area News in the Charlotte Jewish News — For Free!

Feel like you are missing something?  Metro-Charlotte synagogues (including TOO) produce a boatload of great programs, many of which are open to the public.  The best place to find out about meetings, lectures, performances, classes is in the monthly Charlotte Jewish News, which is free of cost.  If you are not receiving the News, shoot an email to amontoni@shalomcharlotte.org.  Or Olam has been publishing a monthly article in CJN for several years.  Don’t be left out!

Or Olam in the Loop: Our Weekly Bulletin on Everything TOO

LoopIce cream social this Friday

After Kabbalat Shabbat!  This is a great opportunity to bring friends and acquaintances to our services to introduce them to our community.  We’ll have representatives of our Religious School and various committees present and accounted for to answer any questions.

Mug for us!

We need 3-6 coffee mugs to hold our plastic tableware at onegs.   Maybe something tastefully Jewish in decoration?  Bring them Friday if you can part with them.

Bar Mitzvah in Red

Mark your calendar, please for this year’s first bar mitzvah.  Preston Berkowitz will be called to Torah on October 19.  Our Shabbat Shacharit service will begin promptly at 10 a.m. in the Radbourne Clubhouse off Harris Boulevard in Charlotte (3325 Radbourne Blvd.)  Folks, wear something red in honor of Preston.  And we mean red.  Really red.