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Reb Barbara participating in DavidsonReads event Thursday, 10/22

DavidsonReads is a community wide reading event that our own Lisa Jewel was instrumental in putting together. The book being read and discussed is “The Color of Water” by James McBride.

On Thursday, Reb Barbara is participating in one of the events:

Everything You Wanted to Know about Blacks & Jews
Davidson Town Hall
October 22, 7:00 p.m.
Join Rabbi Barbara Thiede and the Rev. Brenda Tapia for a frank and open
discussion about cultural differences. In The Color of Water James McBride
describes his encounters with misunderstandings about race and religion. Come
learn what you might not know about your neighbors and what would they like you to know. There will be opportunities to ask questions and to engage in serious conversations.

Friday night, October 23rd, Shabbat Service

From Reb Barbara:

I’d like to remind everyone that we are reading Noach this Friday (Noah) and that everyone who wants to wear a rainbow should!

From Jody:

The religious school studied Noah last year and it was one of the students’ favorite Torah stories…maybe because of the visit from Noah, who answered many of their questions. So this would be a great service to bring the kids to, even though it’s not a family service. Also, in the last couple weeks of religious school, the students have been constructing their own pictorial Torah, and we will be sharing it at this service. So please do come and bring the kids.

Talk and book signing by Rabbi Niles Elliot Goldstein 10/23 and 10/24

Rabbi, author and martial artist Niles Elliot Goldstein will speak about his new book “The Challenge of the Soul: A Guide for the Spiritual Warrior” at two area Jewish congregations Oct. 23-24. The presentations are part of the Southern States Jewish Literary Series coordinated by the Goldring/Woldenberg Institute of Southern Jewish Life in Jackson, Mississippi.

On Friday, Oct. 23, Rabbi Goldstein will speak during Temple Beth El’s 8 p.m. Sabbath service at the Sandra and Leon Levine Jewish Community Center,
5007 Providence Rd., Charlotte. On Saturday, Oct. 24, he’ll speak after Lake Norman Jewish Congregation’s 7 p.m. Havdalah Service at Fair View United Methodist Church, 1430 Mecklenburg Hwy., Mount Mourne. Both events are free and open to the public.

Rabbi Goldstein is founder and rabbi emeritus of The New Shul, an innovative congregation in New York City. He lectures widely on religion and spirituality and has taught at New York University and Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion. He is national Jewish chaplain of the Federal Law Enforcement Officers Association. The rabbi counseled law enforcement officers at Ground Zero, has traveled to remote and inhospitable places to learn and teach, and has sought out difficult experiences to test himself and his faith.

In “The Challenge of the Soul,” his ninth book, the rabbi draws lessons from his own hard-won insights as a rabbi and practitioner of the martial arts, interweaving them with the teachings of sages, biblical figures and thinkers of all stripes to help readers go beyond their own perceived limitations and face life’s challenges with fortitude. “Rabbi Goldstein shows us, through examples from his own spiritual journey, how to harmonize the fine-tuned disciplines of the martial arts with a profound and transformative Judaism grounded in its mystical teachings,” writes Rabbi Zalman Schachter-Shalomi, a leading American rabbi. Rabbi Goldstein’s previous book, “Gonzo Judaism: A Bold Path for Renewing an Ancient Faith,” was praised as one of the top five religious books of 2006 by Publishers Weekly and NBC.

Rabbi Goldstein’s visit is co-sponsored by the two congregations, Temple Beth El and the Lake Norman Jewish Congregation.

The Southern States Jewish Literary Series presents talks and book signings by distinguished authors. The series is coordinated by the ISJL, a not-for-profit organization dedicated to providing educational and rabbinic services to isolated Jewish communities, documenting and preserving the rich history of the Southern Jewish Experience, and promoting a Jewish cultural presence throughout a 13-state region.

Signed books will be available at each lecture. For more information or to order “The Challenge of the Soul: A Guide for the Spiritual Warrior,” call Temple Beth El, (704) 366-1948, or Lake Norman Jewish Congregation, (704) 252-7038; or contact ISJL Director of Programming Andy Muchin, (601)
362-6357 or amuchin@isjl.org.

Program for men November 1st

LEARN ABOUT DOMESTIC ABUSE IN OUR JEWISH COMMUNITY ON SUNDAY, NOV 1ST WITH RABBI H. DAVID ROSE OF JEWISH WOMEN INTERNATIONAL: Evening Program: “Learn – Help – Protect: It’s Not Kosher To Do Nothing.” 7:00 PM in Sam Lerner Center for Cultural Arts, Shalom Park, 5007 Providence Rd., Charlotte, 28226. Explore the Jewish response to domestic abuse and how we can help and protect our friends, our teens and ourselves. Free to the entire Jewish community thanks to funding by the Jewish Federation of Greater Charlotte and Temple Beth El. Babysitting provided. Reception to follow. Co-hosted by Shalom Bayit-NC and Jewish Family Services. For information contact Shalom Bayit-NC at 704-756-9209.

Special added Morning program now being offered FOR MEN ONLY: 10AM to noon in Sam Lerner Cultural Center. “The Paradox of Jewish Men” and why only men can prevent domestic abuse. Open to all men associated with the Jewish community. $10 per person includes breakfast. Hosted by the Brotherhood of Temple Beth El. Please RSVP to Robert Abramowitz at 704-618-0798.

October Shmoozeletter

The October 2009 Shmoozeletter is available here.

Sukkah Building

BUILDING THE SUKKAH
WHO: Temple Or Olam Members
WHERE: Malin Home
WHEN: Saturday, October 3rd at 1:00
Please RSVP: Teresa Malin 704-454-7556 or duffster218@hotmail.com

Please bring Teshuvah journals to Yom Kippur service

Please bring your teshuva journals with you to Yom Kippur services on Monday morning. Also, Reb Barbara would be glad to get more rewrites of the Ki Anu Amecha prayer sent to rabbi@or-olam.org.

This section in particular:

We are arrogant, but You are merciful.
We are obstinate, but You are patient.
We are laden with sin, but you abound in compassion.
We are as a passing shadow, but You are eternal.

If you need more information about what Reb Barbara is looking for as far as a rewrite, please read this:

We remember who we are.

We will go through the next ten days thinking about those blotchy spots on our souls. We care – we care a great deal – about polishing off the shmutz, about finding the forgiveness we need to help our soul shine and sparkle again, as fresh and innocent as it was the day it was created.

The hardest forgiveness to ask for, it turns out, is the forgiveness we must grant ourselves. The hardest judgments we make are made when we judge ourselves.

Before you are your teshuva journals. Begin the very Jewish process of self-reflection with your village in mind. Imagine, please, that you are in the circle. You have done something you know to have been wrong, and your community gathers around you – not to tell you how much you have hurt them, but how much you mean to them. Write to yourself as if you were a member of that community.

What are your best and most wonderful qualities? Who are you, really? Be specific and detailed and go on at great length. Then, ask yourself: What prevents you from being more of who you really are? What can you do to be more of who you are?

Then, during these days of atonement and self-reflection, the time before Yom Kippur as we need to experience it, ask this question and write about it, at the length it requires:

Knowing how easily you could forgive others, can you forgive yourself?

Finally, please help our community with a creative Jewish act. We know it is our work, in every generation, to look at our traditions anew. Enclosed is the text of our Kin Anu Amecha, which precedes our communal confessional prayer, Ashamnu. Kin Anu Amecha first describes our relationship to God in many different ways. It ends with four sentences that I would like to ask you to rewrite in your own terms (and you can do that with the first part of the prayer, too!). I give an example of such rewrites below. Please send your versions to rabbi@or_olam.org before next Shabbat; we will read some of them anonymously at Yom Kippur.

We try so very hard and, thankfully, You know.
We do everything we can to nourish our community, and You notice!
We are burdened by our mistakes, but You remind us that we can forgive ourselves, and grow.
We delight in our loved ones, and You love us for it.

Break – the – Fast Potluck!

Break – the –Fast Potluck!

WHO: All Temple Or Olam Members

WHAT: Break-the-Fast Potluck Dinner

WHERE: McGill Church

WHEN: Monday, September 28th

6:30PM-ish (following evening services)

RSVP: If you won’t be attending this Potluck  Dinner,

PLEASE email or call Lisa B. at:

lbogusla@catawba.edu or 704-636-8626

(or contact me if you have any questions!)

To ensure yummy, well-balanced meals, this year the Social Committee is trying out organizing our potlucks by rotating last names!

Last names beginning with A – H, please bring:

Fruit salad: Bombardier

Some kind of side dish (casserole, kugel, veggie, etc.):

Commike, Eastis, Gordon, Hershenfeld, Holtzman

Last names beginning with I – L, please bring:

Dessert: Jacobson, Jensen, Jewel, Joffe, Jordon

Drink: King

Breads &/or crackers: Leder, Lieberman

Last names beginning with M – Z, please bring:

Bagels: Mace

Toppings for bagels (tomatoes, onions, etc., cut up): Malin

Some kind of main dish such as: tuna salad, egg salad, lox, etc.:

Notarius, Partridge, Quintero, Roberts, Smith

Save the Date: Sukkot Celebration October 4th

Please celebrate Sukkot with Temple Or Olam. More details will follow, but here is some basic information:

Date: Sunday, October 4th
Time: 12:00PM to 2PM
Place: The Malin’s back yard. We don’t publish members’ addresses in a public space like this, so please check your directory.

What: Sukkot brunch and service. More details will follow about the brunch, but the service will be held outdoors, near the Sukkah. There will be lulav and etrog shaking, and songs led by Reb Barbara.

We will have an environmental theme to the Sukkah and the celebration. New decorations will be made out of recycled objects by the religious school students. Please bring a plate, cup, and silverware for each member of your family. That way, we’re not filling the landfill, and nobody has more than a few dishes to wash afterwards.

Note: we will be asking for volunteers to help build the Sukkah on Saturday, October 3rd. Please be on the lookout for that request soon!

Rosh Hashanah Luncheon!

Let’s kick off the New Year right!

WHO: All Temple Or Olam Members

WHAT: Rosh Hashanah Potluck Luncheon

WHERE: McGill Church

WHEN: Saturday, September 19th

Noon-ish (following a.m. services, before Tashlich)

RSVP: If you won’t be attending this Potluck

PLEASE email or call Lisa B. at:

lbogusla@catawba.edu or 704-636-8626

To ensure yummy, well-balanced meals, this year the Social Committee is trying out organizing our potlucks by rotating last names.

Last names beginning with A – H, please bring:

Bagels: Bombardier, Commike

Toppings for bagels (tomatoes, onions, etc., cut up): Eastis

Cream cheese(s): Gordon

Some kind of main dish such as: tuna salad, egg salad, lox, etc.: Hershenfeld, Holtzman, Horowitz

Last names beginning with I – L, please bring:

Fruit salad: Jacobson, Jensen

Apples/Honey: Jewel, Joffe, Jordon

Some kind of miscellaneous side dish: King, Kingberg, Leder, Lieberman

Last names beginning with M – Z, please bring:

Dessert: Mace, Malin, Notarius, Partridge

Drink: Quintero, Roberts, Smith